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In our latest community article, FPL_Runpharm shines a light on the ‘grass is always greener’ mindset that can permeate Fantasy Football.


This is a true story. It happened to someone I know, and it may have happened to you, too. In the FPL community, there won’t be a shortage of similar examples every single week.

This FPL manager owned Omar Alderete (£4.1m), planned to Bench Boost, then saw the yellow flag. He thought about swapping to Nordi Mukiele (£4.0m). The same price point, the same team – why not? However, he decided to wait for more news instead. When photos surfaced of Alderete back in training, he felt brilliant. “See? Patience pays off,” he told himself, proud of not wasting a transfer like those “impatient” managers. Now he can Bench Boost without wasting a transfer.

Matchday arrived. Alderete started. Sunderland kept a clean sheet. This manager celebrated his genius move until he checked the details. Alderete missed defensive contribution (DefCon) points by one. Such a waste, but fine. No bonus points. Fine.

But then he saw Mukiele got DefCon. His face turned pale. Mukiele got all three bonus points. His jaw dropped: how did that happen? And finally, the killer blow: a goal. A 17-point haul for Mukiele, only six for Alderete.

His smile vanished. The same patience he was once proud of now felt like a mistake. He spiralled. Cursed his luck, cursed others’ luck. “They don’t deserve those points,” he muttered. “I should have just done the transfer, I should have known!” The gratitude he had moments ago, for Alderete’s start, the clean sheet, the successful Bench Boost… it all evaporated. He wasn’t happy with what he had anymore; he was angry about what someone else got.

And that, really, is life. We often start contented, with our jobs, families, or simple wins, until we start comparing. Someone else earns more, looks happier, gets luckier, and suddenly what we have feels smaller. Happiness doesn’t vanish because our reality changes; it vanishes because our focus does.

So, maybe the next time you get your own clean sheet (literally or figuratively), stop comparing. Celebrate your win – because happiness isn’t about letting someone else’s score steal the joy from yours.


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FPL_Runpharm <p>Pharmacist from Malaysia, loves running marathons and trails. No fancy rankings (yet) in past years, but working hard to improve as FPL manager. Die-hard Newcastle United fan since 95/96, been to St James Park several times.</p> Follow them on Twitter

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  1. Gianluca Busio's Hair …
    • Fantasy Football Scout Member
    • 15 Years
    1 month, 16 days ago

    I guess my rank makes sense now. I don't know who any of these people are. Maybe I should log on more often.

  2. Fat Frank
    • 8 Years
    1 month, 16 days ago

    Salah & Stach/KDH
    to
    Saka & Bruno for free?

  3. rainy
    • Fantasy Football Scout Member
    • Has Moderation Rights
    • 10 Years
    1 month, 16 days ago

    Price changes 22nd October

    Rises:
    J.Timber 6.0
    Caicedo 5.9
    Mukiele 4.1

    Falls:
    Ekitiké 8.6
    Wood 7.2
    Xavi 6.9
    Füllkrug 5.6
    Steele 4.3

    1. chocolove
      • 15 Years
      1 month, 16 days ago

      Oh here he is, the joy killer. Lol

    2. Timanfaya
      • 2 Years
      1 month, 16 days ago

      Cheers Rainy.

  4. chocolove
    • 15 Years
    1 month, 16 days ago

    "got mukieled"

  5. Punter
    • Fantasy Football Scout Member
    • 10 Years
    1 month, 16 days ago

    Dubravka
    Van de Ven - Gabriel - Senesi
    Semenyo (vc) - Saka - Bruno - Kudus
    Haaland (c) - Pedro - Mateta

    Roefs - Reijnders - Esteve - Diouf

    0.5 ITB 1FT

    A) roll transfer
    B) Van de Ven > Burn
    C) Van de Ven > Chalobah
    D) other suggestion

    Hi guys, any thoughts on this? Feel like Van de Ven is my weakest link. Everton away isn't easy, then CHE and MUN after that, he's not getting CS or Defcons. Maybe if I roll though I could make two moves and get Van de Ven up to Timber/Munoz or somebody else along those lines.

    1. Hubert
      • 13 Years
      1 month, 16 days ago

      A

  6. Casual Player
    • 5 Years
    1 month, 16 days ago

    I like this

    FPL community vibes are definitely "it's not enough that I succeed, others must fail". Which is how you end up mad that your 4.0m bench defender got 6 points and you saved a transfer.

    1. JohnnyCroat
      • 10 Years
      1 month, 16 days ago

      Accurate. Lot of hate in the FPL community, I can tell you that.

      1. The Night Trunker.
        • 2 Years
        1 month, 16 days ago

        Anger is an energy.

        1. Benedict_Alexander_Arnold
          • 1 Year
          1 month, 16 days ago

          Time is a jet plane, it moves too fast

        2. Esraj
          • 10 Years
          1 month, 16 days ago

          Yes, a negative one.

    2. fusen
      • 13 Years
      1 month, 16 days ago

      Isn't that sort of expected though when the game consists of competing against other players and there is a final ranking overall as well as all of the mini competitions which are ranked?

      It's not like you play this game to get a personal best score at the end of the season, you are playing to literally score more than everyone else, so you should want them to fail each week as that means you're more likely to beat them.

      I can understand if you expanded your sentence to add "and be salty about it all" on the end, but "I succeed and others fail" is pretty much the game. You can still be friendly about it though, which I'm hoping is actually what you were getting at?

      1. FPL_Runpharm
        • Fantasy Football Scout Member
        • 3 Years
        1 month, 15 days ago

        I do agree with the competitive nature of the game, but at the same time, torturing ourselves emotionally over something we cannot control, when we can be grateful of the hard earned 6 points is the message I actually want to convey.

    3. RedLightning
      • Fantasy Football Scout Member
      • Has Moderation Rights
      • 15 Years
      1 month, 16 days ago

      As Athletic Nasherbo remarked in reply to a recent hot topic
      (https://www.fantasyfootballscout.co.uk/2025/10/19/fpl-notes-andersen-injury-update-defcon-for-saka?hc_page=1&hc_sort_by=comment_date#hc_comment_27373741),
      it comes from of a mix of perfectionism, obsession, and a desire to maximise points.
      We are naturally disappointed when, despite our best efforts, our move turns out to not be the one that produces the best result.
      I think it's more about aiming for perfection than about wanting others to fail.

      1. FPL_Runpharm
        • Fantasy Football Scout Member
        • 3 Years
        1 month, 15 days ago

        And I also agree with his statement that we can never achieve perfection in this game, the earlier we realize it and accept it, the better it is for our mental health, and for the long term joy we have for the game.. having said that, "wanting others to fail" is definitely part of human nature too

  7. marpy016
    • Fantasy Football Scout Member
    • 14 Years
    1 month, 16 days ago

    Which transfer option, noting I already have Raya, Saka , Gyokeres & Gordon

    A) Gyokeres & Andersen to Woltemade & Gabriel

    B) Raya & VdV to Pope & Gabriel

    1. Punter
      • Fantasy Football Scout Member
      • 10 Years
      1 month, 16 days ago

      Can you afford to hold Andersen if he skips games due to his hamstring?

      If you have a defender that can step into Andersens slot, I like B more, VdV has been an issue and Gabriel is a massive upgrade, Raya to Pope is pretty even.

      1. marpy016
        • Fantasy Football Scout Member
        • 14 Years
        1 month, 16 days ago

        Yeah my other defenders are Senesi, Lacroix & Gudmundsson and I'll generally only be starting 3.

        1. Punter
          • Fantasy Football Scout Member
          • 10 Years
          1 month, 16 days ago

          Easy, B

  8. klopp it guys
    • 8 Years
    1 month, 16 days ago

    How this looking? Would you change anything? I have 1ft and 1.8itb

    Dubravka
    Gabriel, cucurella, burn, senesi
    Kudus, saka, semenyo, ndiaye
    Pedro, haaland,

    Sels, Thiago, xhaka, esteve

    1. RICICLE
      • 3 Years
      1 month, 16 days ago

      Pedro > Woltemade

      1. klopp it guys
        • 8 Years
        1 month, 16 days ago

        Gota gave Pedro Sunderland at least

    2. The Knights Template
      • 12 Years
      1 month, 16 days ago

      Looks fine

  9. Weak Become Heros
    • Fantasy Football Scout Member
    • 7 Years
    1 month, 16 days ago

    Anything on Fulham CB Anderson yet in terms of timeline for injury?

    1. Dokdok666
      • 11 Years
      1 month, 16 days ago

      AndersEn = Fulham CB.
      AndersOn = Forest midfielder

      1. Weak Become Heros
        • Fantasy Football Scout Member
        • 7 Years
        1 month, 16 days ago

        Cheers Dok. Hows the CB’s hammy?

  10. The Night Trunker.
    • 2 Years
    1 month, 16 days ago

    I think the biggest take I can take from eight g/w's is to target Spam moving forward.
    They're looking stinkier the more games they play.

  11. SpaceCadet
    • 12 Years
    1 month, 16 days ago

    UCL fantasy - best cap option today?

    a. mbappe
    b. vini jr
    c. olise

  12. Waxjaman
    • Fantasy Football Scout Member
    • 7 Years
    1 month, 16 days ago

    Brilliant article.

    1. Skonto Rigga
      • Fantasy Football Scout Member
      • Has Moderation Rights
      • 8 Years
      1 month, 16 days ago

      Agreed - thanks again for submitting, Runpharm!

  13. KanuLenoMeeMoCash
    • 5 Years
    1 month, 16 days ago

    That was a very nice article to start the day 🙂

  14. NABIL - FPL otai
    • 13 Years
    1 month, 16 days ago

    Excellent, exceptional stuff.

    What makes it more exceptional is that it's written by a fellow Malaysian. 😀

    Like Roosevelt said, 'Comparison is the thief of joy'. Chin up, Mr. Someone!